I wrote this post between February 2022 and April 2022 A question that comes to mind more frequently than not these days. When we moved...

Current friends may not be your future friends Making mistakes are okay and part of life Don’t listen to fuck boys Budgets aren’t just a...

Back in September, I deleted all of my tweets. I was going through some pretty bad burn out/post-posting sadness and didn’t want to deal...

It’s Monday morning around 9am on Valentine’s Day. I’m sitting here drinking the espresso that I made from the epic $70 find from...

The best idea that M and I have had for splitting the chore of cooking is taking a week ‘on’ and a week ‘off’. If it’s my week to cook,...

Things I learned in 2021 Staying focused on positive things usually has tremendous results It’s been easy lately to get into a negative...

‘We’ve decided to not have kids.’ I say, M says, we say. ‘That’s okay you’re still young’ ‘Wait till you find the right one’ ‘That’s a...

Convenience is almost a necessity in life right now. How can I get something in the easiest, least frustrating way? This happens to me...

Mathew and I are relatively frugal in our day to day lives. We mostly make coffee at home (I’m sure my coffee client is cringing right...

A question that burns into my mind nearly every time I bring up friends or meet new people. Are they accepting? Are they going to be cool...

I started therapy in September. This was something that I had contemplated doing for a few years; 2020 brought everything up for me and...

Is that was it’s called? I don’t know. Every weekend from when I was probably 6 or 7 (probably older and probably not every weekend...

What started as an ‘I need a break’ moment, quickly morphed into a ‘focus’ day. When you’re growing a business and have multiple clients,...

Short answer, no. Long answer, yes. For quite some time, probably at least a decade, my sister and I have had a... tumultuous...

Or Fucks. We’re adults, we can say fuck. If you know me at all, you know that I love spreadsheets, economics, and efficiencies. I am...

What a wild time to be alive. In a few short weeks, my partner and I are moving across the country to the other coast. Work is taking him...

Communication As you’ll read, the key part of my relationship and friendships is communication. Something that I’ve had to re-learn and...

We did this without our parents paying for it. Back in 2017, when I met my now-husband, I knew pretty quickly that I wanted to be with...

I broke all my rules. Turn off the notifications. Put it on Do Not Disturb overnight. Nothing is urgent enough. I’m not addicted to it, I...

1. Better isn't best. "You'll realize how bad it was and how you absolutely deserve better." "I've already realized it. Which makes me...